In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us. John makes something decisive clear here: the origin is not with you. You are not the starting point of the relationship with God.
In the New Covenant, God's love is not a reaction to your behavior. It is initiative. He loved first, when you were not even asking. This takes the pressure off having to build something that has long been standing.
When busyness drives you today, remember: you are not loved because you deliver. You are loved because he decided so. True rest grows from this.