God's chosen ones, holy and beloved. Note: Paul is not describing what you should become but what you are. You are chosen, you are holy, you are loved. From this identity you may put on qualities like clothing: compassion, kindness, humility.
In the New Covenant, behavior is not the condition for identity but the fruit of it. You don't put on gentleness to become holy. You put it on because you are.
Today: Live from what you are, not for what you want to become.